ok, so i am going to have to invest in all of ani's cd's, as i like the edge on her lyrics. cayle may be too young for them, however. speaking of too young, a friend commented yesterday about cayle's development- about she seems young to start developing and that we had better keep a careful eye. this friend went on to share with us that her daughter developed early and was date raped at age 15 while out with a 23 year old that that they had to prosecute. ernst about had a stroke thinking about the future ahead with our daughter. my first thought was about the wisdom of letting a 15 year old out with anybody let alone a 23 year old. i wasn't allowed to car date until i could drive on my own 'just in case'- which seems reasonable to me now though it didn't seem so then. of course, i tell cayle that she won't be able to date until she has graduated from college and has a job.......