ok, so today at the restaurant i received a pointsettia (sp?) in a lovely plaid bit of sparkly paper- with a condolence card from 2 females who listed only their first names- alas- i know 2 sets of women with those names- and i am at a loss to decide which set sent the flowers- i am hoping that the truth will unfold at church- that the church set will ask me if i received them and i wil be able to send a thank you note..........i received a xmas letter from my grad school roommate- she is living in her 3rd house on the same street- her husband is a builder- she is a junior-league type- which i do not hold against her- i find it humourous to think that i lived with her for 2 years with no inkling that she had that in mind.......ah well....so many mysterious womenin my life........