ok, so i have had 2 moments to think about this book, and i have a clear notion of how it will not play out on my life...for starts....the wife decides to give her husband dibs on the house if he will agree to host a wedding party for the daughter who marries unexpectedly in thailand........that will never happen...as i will not leave my garden without kicking and screaming...............i do not care who lives in my house, but nobody else gets my garden as long as i am breathing........