ok, so an update on the brunch casseroles is appropriate, because the plot thickened...........not only could the hostess in question not bring herself to make 2 casseroles, she sent her mother to pick them up.......her mother with the broken ankle who had to call us from her cell phone whilst our parking lot to bring them out to her, as she could not manouver in and out of the restaurant with her crutches AND carry the casseroles back to her car.......what kind of woman sends her lamed mother on such an errand?