ok, so tomorrow after cayle's baptism at church, we will have a celebratory luncheon that includes cayle's signifcant folks.....grandma crown, mimi (her former foster mother) and pappy (her former foster father) and pappy's new wife........this will be a strained event, as mimi and pappy's new wife are obviously not best pals.........cayle is to be the center of attention, so we hope the adults all act like adults...........i am catering a wedding for 432 this evening, so the meal tomorrow will be chinese carryout........