damned if i do.......

ok, so my middle child applied early decision today............and i have kept my promise not to disclose the specifics........even when inquiring minds wanted to know........yesterday in sunday school a wonderful woman i have know for 20 years asked me....and i said that i could not say.........only to discover today that her son, who dates a friend of my son's, thought it was odd that i would not disclose this information.............and my son also thought it odd, despite his original request............so i am crazy for not telling, whereas i would have been mean for telling..........who knew...............