closure......

ok, so last night the mm took advantage of an opportunity to find closure and peace with her brother-in-law........the one she has not seen in 2 solid years....not since the unfortunate probating of her mother-in-law's will 2 years ago.................i was really pleased to see him at my sister-in-law's house.....and my first words to him were genuine................i told him that i was most sad when osu won the national football championship, and i did not feel welcome to call him to relish in the success..............he gave me a big hug, and told me that he celebrated for both of us..............and that he also celebrated when xavier made it to the round of 8...........................family distress is more than distressing...............it is downright disabling.....................even when it is not quite your family..................