stephan asked at supper if mean and hateful necessarily go together. can one be a mean mamma and not be hateful? is being hateful part and parcel of being a mean mamma? andrew appears to beleive that ebing annoying is part of being mean.... i drove into town to try to jump his car 'in front of the library' after he finished up work. he was not 'in fornt of the library', but in the baptist lot and i almost missed him as i drove by. i made the mistake of mentioning this logistical error, as well as not knowing how to jump a car- he went into a screaming tirade on the specific degree to which my presence in his life was useless and irritating. a mean mamma would have ejected him on the road and let him find his own ride home. i make no claims to understand car repair or emergency service- he knew so before i came into town. if anything, he should have paid more attention when his dad has jumped his sorry car in the past........