ok, so a yellow iris bloomed overnight, despite the frost.........i wasn't there yesterday when i weeded........last night the c-w's went out to eat......this just never happens, as there are always leftovers from trc to eat for supper.....but last night mm just wasn't up to eating her own cooking....so we piled in the van and went to gualulahara (sp), the new one with the l. liscense......they were packed, but we got a table within 1 minutes....alas...we were not done with ordering, receiving food, getting scw's dessert, or getting a check for 2 solid hours.......the wait staff looked shell-shocked, and were clearly not prepared for the volume, either in number of servers or kitchen staff.......i really felt bad for them, and had to restrain myself from getting up and clearing off tables just to help out........when we got home i walked on the treadmill and watched igby goes down....which i rented because it starred susan sarandon........this was a bizarre tale of famiy dysfunction.....kind of like catcher in the rye in some respects, like holden caulfield with a perfect older brother, so sister, a parent in the looneybin, and a mother meaner than me...certainly not a feelgood romance.........like the movie we watched friday night...sweet home alabama.....predictable, but i didn't lay awake wondering what it all meant.........