ok, so today i must dip 300 strawberries in chocolate, fill 300 philo (sp?) cups with chicken salad, and stuff 300 ham biscuits.....and make 3 vegetable baskets...........and fix lunch, of course......thankfully the restaurant will be closed tonight, as the wedding will take up all available seats........our main concern......the bride rented a champagne fountain, but may not have ordered enough champagne to fill it up.......or provide each of her 150 guests with a small glass........i am not worrying about this though, as i will be at another wedding, in a field on chrisman lane, in a tent........where their will be no alcohol, as the groom's sister would not attend if alcohol was served.......it is the second wedding for the groom and the third for the bride.......i am perplexed by the second and third marriage thing......my parents, and both sets of grandparents, and at least one set of greatgrandparents were married 50+ years.....the legacy? you slog it out through better or worse, just like you promised......and do your best to make the experience as nice as possible for your spouse.........