ok, so we have one week before on goes back to belgium.......it should go quickly........also coming soon is acw's departure to his first (shared) apartment at uk........a uk-owned apartment, but still a living arrangement that will allow him to cook for himself and enjoy a bit more privacy........i have spent the past few days writing simple recipes on cards......and gathering together essentials like baking/microwave dishes, drainers, utensils, coffee cups, etc........he still lacks a few pots and pans....so grandma will help out when they go shopping on friday...........he is sharing this apartment, but he is better off having many of his own things in case others come emptyhanded.....which is likely given the boys in question.....he appears pleased to be making this step........