ok, so i received an email today that a niece of ecw had a baby yesterday weighing over 10 pounds .......whup is the only response......we did not know they were expecting...despite multiple funerals last year when every one gathered and caught up on news........we are excited for any couple going for a third child...we think it is the child that will certanily drive you mad..the first is practice, the second is a piece of cake and the third is sheer craziness........the good news is that the baby was big, which means that she ate well......a business aquaintance recently divulged that he had had a vacectomy, at the age of 47+....he wanted praise, but i was aghast that he had waited all of this time.......his children are both over 17..for god's sakes.......what took him so long......my in-laws were catholic and it was the potential for new babies that drove them to separate beds long before desire faded...i hope that my children are responsible with birth control, and do not rely on prayers to limit family size..........