ok, so the subject of the sunday school lesson this morning was regrets......we were asked to make a short list of regrets at the beginning of the lesson......i started to record things that were job related....like staying too long.... or things that were romantic-related....like old boyfriends that i should have dumped sooner.....but decided that these are things that happened along the path that brought me to this very place.....and i cannot count them as regrets if they brought me to this family, in this house, in this life i now lead........no, i can only count as a regret those things that i did or did not do that had no affect on the outcome...for example, i regret that on our 3 week honeymoon, ecw and i chose to go to the riviera rather than vienna...i can see us in the car in innsbruck.....i thinkng of going on to vienna, but ecw thinking about the great time he had in st. tropez and wanting me to see it.......of course, by the time we got to st tropez it was rainy, littered, and unremarkable......i have never yet made it to vienna.....and i regret that i have not done so......i could remedy this at any time, i suppose........maybe next january?