cindy's theory of divorce....

ok, so until this afternoon, i had only heard deedra's theory of divorce........'a woman will divorce her husband on general principle...but a man never divorces his wife unless and until he has her replacement in the wings......' deedra claims that this theory has never been proved wrong.........today, my friend cindy postulated her own theory, which meshes onto the notion of women divorcing their spouses........she contends that it is menopausal survival of the fittest........that the wife is so distraught with caring for her dying/aging parents....and difficult/hormonal children....as well as her own hormonal fragility....that she finally says.....i have to cut loose something in order to find peace....and thus she divorces the man who bitched and moaned about her testiness and her erratic behavior during the entire marriage/childbirth/menopause rollercoaster..........because she cannot discard either her parents or her children quite as decisively..........curious theory........not one that i hope to see proven right or wrong.....and not one that i see her proving right or wrong..........but an interesting theory when one looks to the current divorces on the danville horizon.......not that we discussed anybody in particular in the save-a-lot parking lot..............but an interesting theory.........