25th......

ok, so i have spent the last little bit searching through my older photo albums.....and i seem to have taken no photos of my spouse's little sister's wedding 25 years ago next week........i was a relatively new bride at the time....and these things would not have crossed my mind at 25.......which is why i am not surpised that my sister-in-law's 22 year old eldest didn't think to invite us, or anyone in the wedding party to the 25th surprise celebration held last weekend....we only found out that it had happened second hand......and so when i called my dear sister-in-law( i am serious here...i do really hold some folks dear to my heart)........i apologized...because i thought their anniversary was beyond next week......and it seems i was right...not til the 27th........of course i also thought her birthday was around thanksgiving...and it is actually november 2.....ouch!........i have had few chances to be first with anything in my spouses's family.....and this wedding was basically it for me...and i still cannot keep it straight.......a large, and extravagant flower arrangement is in order, eh?