ok, so it has been suggested that my friend would not have bothered to have come by at all had she not valued my friendship and missed it enough to ask why i had withdrawn it.....and that maybe she is also working so much that she feels as if she has no life and is reaching out to someone that she used to do fun things with...now the ball is in my court, and i have to decide what to do next to either make amends or to blow it off and forget her friendship altogether....yes, she is quirky, but that is one of the things that i have always like about her.....gentle readers, sophomore year never ends, no matter how old you get.........hence the presence of the word 'sophomoric' in our vocabulary.......