power struggle.....

ok, so...closer to home.....now that the hostess for our family thanksgiving has not only borrowed but set up the church tables in her basement, her sister is demanding that early set up is a sign that she is far too busy to host thanksgiving, and is now demanding the the location be changed to her house........ only in america......as for me....i'll not attend if the location is changed.....i'll make do with creamed spinach and sweet/sour red cabbage and bread stuffing in the calm and quiet of my own home......