ok, so the mm was visited by an old friend today, unexpectedly......she was in town with her daughter at the forensics thing....she went first to see ecw at db&f...then came over to the trc.....i have not seen her in years, though she and her husband still keep contact with kandy and dan.....we first met kandy and dan through cathy waugh and rocky cooper.......so long ago.......anyway, i have not seen her since she had a car wreck 6 years ago.....she is now in constant pain, says she....but we mostly talked about our gifted yet wild first-borns and our brilliant second-borns.......i will always remember cathy waugh for telling us when her baby would be born from the first day she knew she was pregnant....and darn if she wasn't right..........she really made my day.....with her candid opinions and reations and encouragement..........her first born goes to antioch in yellow springs, ohio......after centre turned him down......with a 32 act and a 1450 sat and alumni parents......