ok, so we went to lexington to a birthday/uk basketball watching party ust down the street from henry clay hs...the #2 child is a senor at hc...and has an offer to play bball at centre.......he is very tall and quite good looking.....but he was not the center of discussion..we were there to toast our friend dick burchett, who turned 64 2 days after i turned 47.......his girlfriend leslie, our hostess, is nearly 50, and has 4 children by 2 previous husbands....her second husband, the parent of the 3 children still at home.....has 4 children by his next marriage.....got it? this is all too many children and too many husbands.....looking around the table, many of our friends are on second wives......at least 4 men and 3 women...........i can hardly handle the strain of my first marriage.........not strain exactly....that is a bad choice of words.......suffice it to say that i have no interest in having multiple spouses.........alas, the hostess was much put put out that i have my own restaurant.....she absolutley refused to let me help in any way........even the dishes.........