underestimation

ok, so....my spouse has just returned from the centre expo....and curiously....several friends of our eldest child pretended he wasn;t there....think males with last names like eastern block countries.....and brother/sister acts........he was somewhat surprised.....as he was surprised when a girl in our middle child's class chatted with him like a long lost friend....think......angels we have heard on high........neither of us could recall ever really talking to her...but she spoke of stephan like he was an inspiration .....and i felt somewhat guilty for doing things for those who could have cared less.....and nothing for someone who seemed appreciative.....yeah...that is not why we are called to do good things.....but it helps...........and so it goes in our family of three......going o.k........it seems.....things to say.......no major lapses in conversation...no awkward moments...it will be o.k.......without a family of three expo............